What happens when your care is trampled?

I like to care for people that I love as friends, and that's just me.
But sometimes, when I try to care for them, they close themselves in and try to act like it's their own problems.
Then what are friends for??
Saw Jen's note yesterday, and yeah I think friends and family should always back the person up. Or else, friends and family have no use. I'm here for all of my friends.

So it kinda hurts really when you care for a person, and all they do is ignore you, act as if you can't help them and they don't appreciate your help. If thats the case. I would honestly rather not care. I can be very, very cold. I have been and I can be cold.
But thats the old me.
I'm trying not to be cold.

And I absolutely hate it when someone forces it out of me.